Tired of Society?

A recent subscriber wrote to me: 

“Why are societal values overbearing? I don’t want to accept that the purpose of my life is not of my choosing. It has been driven by aspects of economic survival and duty. I think of what it would be like to walk away from it all and travel to the Himalayas and meditate and live a spiritual life. Might an Ashram offer a blissful existence?”

Have you ever felt this way too? 

Are there places we can go to get away from it all? 

What would these places be like?

What could we learn about ourselves?

Is living in a spiritual community the answer?

I answer these questions and more in today’s video…

Discover Your Life Purpose and True Calling

As a coach I work with people that find themselves going through life transitions. Though change is constant, there are times in our lives where we experience more change than others and it’s during these often intense moments that we make life changing pivots and embark on a new adventure. 

These life transitions can occur at any age and can erupt at any time. When they do come, we often feel blindsided and a bit shaken up. We may question what our purpose is and what we are meant to do. We may question what our true calling is; if we even have one to begin with. 

All of these questions are a natural and normal response to change and invites us to take a look at our lives from a larger perspective.

Do we all in fact have a life purpose? Do we each have a “true” calling? If we did, how would we recognize it? Is there more than one calling in a lifetime?

I explore all these concepts and more in today’s video. Please join me in discovering your life purpose and true calling… 

 

How To Be Joyful For No Reason

It doesn’t matter who you are, where you are from; whether you are religious, agnostic or atheist, you are Spiritual.

What does Spiritual mean?

Spirituality is not what you do. It is not what you believe or disbelieve. Spirituality is not a creed, a sect, or a lifestyle.

Spirituality is.

Life is.

Spirituality is life. Life is living. 

But not all of us are living life. 

Many don’t even know what it is to ‘live’ and thus many are so out of tune of who and what they are as a spiritual being that we wake up every morning in mental anguish, depression, anxiety, and general malaise. 

Unfortunately, waking up like this is starting to be considered ‘normal’ as our society has identified any myriad of ways to justify feeling like shit all the time. Excuse my French 😉

In today’s world, everyone suffers everything

Have you noticed this?

We suffer things we cannot control like the weather, traffic, or the big three: illness, old-age and death.  

We suffer things we can control like our thoughts and emotions. 

We suffer other people when they mistreat us or ignore us and we suffer other people when they aren’t even physically with us by remembering past traumas and painful experiences.

We suffer our jobs, paying bills, socializing, being alone, eating too much cake, eating vegetables, exercising, not exercising, taking care of others, or not being responsible for anyone or anything. The list is endless.

Many feel they have no life purpose and therefore feel very separate from everyone and everything as if somehow a title or a particular action or ‘do-ing’ would deem you worthy of being who you already are. 

But telling people that you are already deserving and worthy of living joyfully for no reason isn’t an easy pill to swallow for most people because they have been told you must do something, be something, have something, achieve something, something, something, something, in order to feel joyful. 

Thus, most if not all people put a qualification on being joyful. They cannot simply be joyful for no reason – that would be crazy, right?

Everything in life can be suffered if seen through the lens of negativity. Everything.

Likewise, everything in life can be joyful and blissful because it is not the outside circumstances that dictate your state of being but your conscious response to life that determines your bliss and joy.  

The simple truth is that we have lost touch with our divinity, our spirituality, our sense of Be-ing.

We don’t know who or what we are because we haven’t taken the time to ask ourselves this fundamental question.

We unconsciously give our power away to our parents, doctors, bosses, authority figures, media, and social and cultural norms. We look to the outside to tell us how to feel inside.

Hence, no one knows who or what they truly are. Even worse, if you were to be left alone for just a few hours you’d go crazy without constant stimulus or entertainment to continually flood your attention. 

Can you even fathom sitting outside with nature for an hour doing absolutely nothing? No texting, no googling, no taking selfies or pictures, no interacting with insects or birds, no thinking, no wishing, no hoping, no praying, no reminiscing, no imagining.

Just Be-ing. 

Can you do this for even 10 minutes?

This is called meditation and meditation is the art of BEING.

Ravi Shankar, an enlightened yogi from the East calls meditation: “I want nothing. I do nothing. I am nothing.” 

Spirituality is not a belief system nor is it a way to live life. You are LIFE.

The irony is that the life that you are is not in tune with the greater limitless life that is everywhere around us. 

Spiritual Coaching is about empowering you to live in the present moment, learn to see reality with clarity and higher awareness. 

Allowing outside circumstances to dictate how you think and feel is slavery.

Consciously choosing how you respond is freedom.

Being joyful every moment for no reason is my reality everyday and it can be yours too as you are no different from me.

If you wish to know who and what you truly are and are willing to open yourself to discovering a new way of perceiving the life that you are, then please contact me for a 30 minute discovery call to see if Spiritual Coaching is right for you. 

With You In Wholeness,

– E

What Is True Freedom?

I always found it interesting that solitary confinement is used as a punishment in some prison systems yet self-imposed solitary confinement and silence is regularly used as spiritual sadhana (practices).

What can be seen as torture for one individual can be a means of enlightenment for another. 

This thought reminds me of a documentary I came upon just over a year ago describing the life story of a death row inmate that was wrongly accused of murder. In his book and later movie, “The Fear of 13“, Nick Yarris describes in heart wrenching detail the poor life choices he made and their subsequent consequences. His story is one of unimaginable suffering, yet there is something about his extraordinary tenacity and careful words that strikes a powerful and lasting effect with the listener. 

In one of the last scenes he describes how he was elated to discover that he had finally proved his innocence through DNA exoneration. His 20+ years on death row had finally come to an end. But just as this news broke he found himself being unceremoniously ripped from his standard cell with keepsakes, toiletries, books and art and thrown into a tiny windowless compartment with nothing but the clothes on his back. Why? Although not his first time in solitary confinement, this occasion was particularly cruel as the prison guards had only one reason for shifting cells; one last kick while he was down.  

Sitting in his cell he could have easily manifested any understandable emotion: anger, spite, hate, envy, jealousy, bitterness. Yet instead he did something truly miraculous. He calmly sat down in his cross-legged yoga posture and then proceeded to close his eyes. 

He narrated, “…they left me with nothing, so I decided to give myself everything.” 

He then went on to describe how he finally allowed himself to envision his new life once he got out of the prison system, what he’d wear, who he’d be with, where he’d go, what love he’d meet and what love he’d give.

He now spends his days advocating love and kindness to a world that desperately needs it.

Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” – Victor Frankl

In a similar vein, when Dan Rather asked Nelson Mandela in a 1990 interview, “What was the worst thing that happened to you when you were in prison?” Nelson didn’t hesitate to respond, “It is easy to forget the past, and I cannot answer your question because I frankly do not remember.”

Of course we are all very familiar with Nelson Mandela’s powerful legacy of peace, justice and most of all forgiveness.

And finally a more recent example of the power of the human spirit can be showcased in the newly discovered musical compositions that prisoners in Nazi concentration camps wrote and smuggled out through laundry and other desperate means. Some composed their symphonies on toilet paper written with charcoal given to them as dysentary medicine.

“When you lost freedom…toilet paper and coal can be freedom.” – Francesco Lotoro

The definition of freedom states, “the power or right to act, speak, or think as one wants without hindrance or restraint” but this is the dictionary, a book filled with words that were defined by humans and in this specific case, a word that has evolved beyond its previous contextual meaning.

True freedom has nothing to do with exerting yourself onto others simply because you can. Freedom is something far more powerful – it is the perseverance of the human spirit, to consciously choose your attitude in any given experience; to respond in full awareness and take 100% responsibility.

Freedom is living in a high vibrancy state with hearts open to give and receive without limit, minds that are free to perceive reality as it is with clarity, and boundless awareness of our connection to all life in all its myriad of forms.

This is true freedom.

If you are inspired by these stories of true human freedom and would like to make some lifestyle changes, a Spiritual Life Coach can help create more awareness to live a more balanced and empowered life. Spiritual mentorship and life coaching sessions include self-inquiry, guided meditations, lifestyle design, goal setting and homework to help steer you in the right direction and rediscover your innate talents, gifts and personal power.

We all deserve to live our lives as an expression of true freedom and joy. If you are interested in taking back control of your life while keeping yourself accountable, please contact me, I would love to work with you!

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Elizabeth Hancock CPC, CSC - Yogi, Mystic, Artist

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